Something strange happens when human beings climb into their motorized boxes and start on down the road...they become themselves. Not just themselves, but the truest part of themselves. This is where the rage, impatience, jealousy, hostility and seemingly lack of consequence are at their most potent. For some reason people feel safe in their driving cubes to become the worst parts of humanity. All at once!
I've barely touched the surface on how terrible people become behind the wheel and I feel like I've seen the worst the ego can do. Everything from swearing, screaming tantrum fits to near collisions because someone felt wronged and someone else was in a hurry. Why do we adopt this behavior immediately upon entering our vehicles? I can see you flipping me off through this thing called a 'windshield.' Is it because the consequences of our actions are easily sped away from any sort of recourse? I wouldn't dream of swearing in someones face on the sidewalk cuz they stepped in front of me. I wouldn't dare run up behind someone as fast as I could, step directly in front of them and then walk so slowly they had to lurch to a halt, causing them to shake their head in bewilderment and dismay. I would never bi-pass three parallel lines of people waiting for, let's say food, scream my order at the poor server and bottleneck the line. Then learn that by me butting ahead, I caused everyone else's food to be held up and delivered cold and that we all got the food at the exact same time anyway! How ridiculous the world would be if that's how we behaved when we left our homes and went out into the world. So why do we accept this behavior at speeds that cause more death than any other means?
We act as though we have entered an impenetrable force-field where no harm will come to us no matter how terrible we act. I can be witness to an asshole but I can't catch him so it's ok that he's an asshole and nearly ran me off the road? On a side-note, women drivers are just as big as assholes as our male counterparts.
Driving stresses me out. That's inaccurate. Drivers, stress me out. I can't trust that the other people around me aren't going to go mental and do something that severely injures or kills me. Failing that, I find such exorbitant amounts of tension arise from maneuvering around angry drivers, unskilled drivers, distracted drivers. A man this afternoon attempted to pass me on a one lane bridge while texting and speeding. If I hadn't of been paying attention to his recklessness, I could have been smushed. Or if I had taken some kind of offense to his ridiculous and harmful behavior and sped up to prevent him from overtaking me, I would have been smushed undoubtedly. I don't want to be smushed. No one wants to be smushed. No one wants to be honked at, tail-gated, or forced into a near miss with some entitled dick who thinks his car space is more integral than yours. Perhaps that's the ticket. We feel that owning our car means we own the space around the car. When our car bubble space is interfered with, we lose our minds. It's like personal space but at break-neck speeds and with a thousand pounds of metal and fiberglass at our fingertips.
I also think that driving has been made so easy, we quickly forget the dire consequences if bubbles collide. We forget that speed directly affects live or death. How irresponsible we've become with such a wonderful and efficient gift. All awareness and compassion for others lost. Only selfish need to get somewhere on time remains. I for one am going to do my best not to let the ease of my travel means affect how I treat the rest of the world. I'm already part of the problem, why exacerbate it so? We're all in this together people and your car cannot forever shield you from the eventuality of cause and effect.
Friday, August 19, 2016
Tuesday, August 16, 2016
The Day the Awareness Died
I get paid by way of retail. I see the worst in people when they don't get what they have come for.
Standing in the aisle, minding my own, a man approaches on a mission.
"Do you have anymore of theeeeze?" He impatiently shoves an empty bin under my nose.
"Sorry. They're on order." I say with a sigh as I don't actually work at this location. I merely provide the consistently tardy product.
He scoffs in my face and storms off. I feel relieved as this was a relatively innocuous exchange. Back to the doldrums and daydream I head. Blissful in my thoughts of the beach, he returns with an actual employee and shoves the bin under his nose. The employee looks to me for aid and I side-step over to assist, stating once more that the product desired, is on order. Perhaps my previous answer was not clear. Perhaps the man thought I had no idea what I was on about. Perhaps the man is a total twat.
"Well! You have been out of theeeeze...for three days!" He, clearly not concerned with escalating a perfectly inoffensive exchange, begins to grow red in his already bloated and useless face.
He once more stomps away, defeated and seething. I'm not sure what goes on in that twats day. I don't think I want to know. I do feel curious only because when I pontificate on what others can go through in three days and not only survive, but not bitch about it, it really puts things into perspective. I felt my sanity wane as I thought about those that haven't had food in three days, or clean drinking water. People who suffer grave injustice at the hands of others. People who are bombed, raped, tortured, starved, beaten...I'm not sure they would see the merit in the things most of us take for granted and then complain about. We are all children throwing tantrums until we are granted what we want. It sickens me.
I ponder if it was his emotional state that drove him to the over-reaction? Why did he allow himself to become so riled up by something so inexplicably harmless? Why was the product not being there when he demanded it, such an affront to his mental and emotional state? Did that product have some kind of special meaning to him? Had he been told No, everyday of his life for the last forty years and today was the day he couldn't take it anymore? Why does awareness go out the window when we don't get what we want, or think we need? The employee even tried to sooth the life-sucker by offering him another similar product that would have done the job just fine. The man chortled some lame excuse for the substitute failing and dug himself even deeper into his self-made pit of loathing and despair.
This experience today may seem trivial to write about. But, I believe this to be a microcosm for the way the world is currently progressing. People have become so terrible, entitled, selfish, and unaware. We all have bad days. Alas, before vomiting our vitriol on one another, please take a moment to think about what others are capable of going through in the span of three days!... and how our time here, doesn't need to be as stressful as we structure it.
Standing in the aisle, minding my own, a man approaches on a mission.
"Do you have anymore of theeeeze?" He impatiently shoves an empty bin under my nose.
"Sorry. They're on order." I say with a sigh as I don't actually work at this location. I merely provide the consistently tardy product.
He scoffs in my face and storms off. I feel relieved as this was a relatively innocuous exchange. Back to the doldrums and daydream I head. Blissful in my thoughts of the beach, he returns with an actual employee and shoves the bin under his nose. The employee looks to me for aid and I side-step over to assist, stating once more that the product desired, is on order. Perhaps my previous answer was not clear. Perhaps the man thought I had no idea what I was on about. Perhaps the man is a total twat.
"Well! You have been out of theeeeze...for three days!" He, clearly not concerned with escalating a perfectly inoffensive exchange, begins to grow red in his already bloated and useless face.
He once more stomps away, defeated and seething. I'm not sure what goes on in that twats day. I don't think I want to know. I do feel curious only because when I pontificate on what others can go through in three days and not only survive, but not bitch about it, it really puts things into perspective. I felt my sanity wane as I thought about those that haven't had food in three days, or clean drinking water. People who suffer grave injustice at the hands of others. People who are bombed, raped, tortured, starved, beaten...I'm not sure they would see the merit in the things most of us take for granted and then complain about. We are all children throwing tantrums until we are granted what we want. It sickens me.
I ponder if it was his emotional state that drove him to the over-reaction? Why did he allow himself to become so riled up by something so inexplicably harmless? Why was the product not being there when he demanded it, such an affront to his mental and emotional state? Did that product have some kind of special meaning to him? Had he been told No, everyday of his life for the last forty years and today was the day he couldn't take it anymore? Why does awareness go out the window when we don't get what we want, or think we need? The employee even tried to sooth the life-sucker by offering him another similar product that would have done the job just fine. The man chortled some lame excuse for the substitute failing and dug himself even deeper into his self-made pit of loathing and despair.
This experience today may seem trivial to write about. But, I believe this to be a microcosm for the way the world is currently progressing. People have become so terrible, entitled, selfish, and unaware. We all have bad days. Alas, before vomiting our vitriol on one another, please take a moment to think about what others are capable of going through in the span of three days!... and how our time here, doesn't need to be as stressful as we structure it.
Tuesday, July 26, 2016
Sense and Cell Phone Use
I just witnessed, aghast, as a woman's dog ripped a mother duck in half.
I had just climbed a small hill to sit at my favorite reading spot near a duck pond, replete with waterfall and ancient cedars, when I hear this cacophony of sound coupled by a flurry of motion in my periphery. I see the baby duck with new feathers gradually replacing his down since the last time I saw him, frantically struggling to gain lift as his mother adeptly maneuvered the brush and began to achieve flight, striving in the opposite direction of her offspring. Alas, it was too late. The blackened beast untamed and un-fucking-leashed, unaware of the stakes or my horror, paused only momentarily as I bellowed in my best 'I mean goddamn business' voice, then pounced. He clipped the momma mallard and knocked her off her frantic and desperate course. She struggled to get airborne once more but to no avail. I screamed once more with all of my might, seemingly the only witness to this massacre as the homeless mutt chomped down on her helpless yet still struggling body. He wrenched the bird in his jaws a couple times and shook with the vigor of a pioneer championing his kill. That was that. The dog ran off as quickly as he came. The anger began to replace my shock and dismay when I realized, this dog had an owner. He was not a homeless waif, roaming various duck ponds on a murderous nightly spree. He was loved and cared for by a fucking ridiculous woman standing 30 yards away...on her motherfucking cell phone. She was calmly chatting, not paying a lick of attention to her untrained animal who had just killed a bird for sport and left its child to roam the pond, weeping for its loss and now forced to fend for itself.
I stood in brief shock. How had this happened? How had this woman just stood idly by while her mutt committed such acts and done nothing? Less than nothing! She witnessed the event and remained on her cell phone! Clearly that was more important than protecting the wildlife or her pet who was being mercilessly screamed at with such vitriol my throat became hoarse. When seeing that I was also witness to this ridiculous and unnecessary atrocity, strode quickly in the opposite direction. Very quickly. Dog, happy as a clam, in tow. I chased that stupid bitch down. She played dumb, remained on her cell phone, leashed her dog and practically ran away from me. I tried to maintain myself as I confronted her...it was not easy. Through the entirety of the experience, I was more shocked by her nonchalance than the event I had just witnessed. Is this what our cell phone culture is creating? Apathy for even death? There was no responsibility taken. There was no apology. There was no concern. What if that had been a human being? We have become so obsessed with being seen as "busy" or "important" that we are distracted when major things in our lives occur. We are obsessed with being "connected" that we forget about the moment. Every moment is a moment to connect and I wanted nothing more than to connect my fist with her stupid face and watch her cell phone smash to smithereens. I don't want to be violent. I want the world to be more accountable. I want technology to be used as a tool and not abused as a means to avoid or cause conflict. I want people to understand that real life happens when you're glued to the shit that is suppose to free you so that you can spend it living, enjoying and embracing. I don't blame the dog. He was merely living in the moment. If people had any sense, they'd do the same...hopefully with less bloodshed.
I had just climbed a small hill to sit at my favorite reading spot near a duck pond, replete with waterfall and ancient cedars, when I hear this cacophony of sound coupled by a flurry of motion in my periphery. I see the baby duck with new feathers gradually replacing his down since the last time I saw him, frantically struggling to gain lift as his mother adeptly maneuvered the brush and began to achieve flight, striving in the opposite direction of her offspring. Alas, it was too late. The blackened beast untamed and un-fucking-leashed, unaware of the stakes or my horror, paused only momentarily as I bellowed in my best 'I mean goddamn business' voice, then pounced. He clipped the momma mallard and knocked her off her frantic and desperate course. She struggled to get airborne once more but to no avail. I screamed once more with all of my might, seemingly the only witness to this massacre as the homeless mutt chomped down on her helpless yet still struggling body. He wrenched the bird in his jaws a couple times and shook with the vigor of a pioneer championing his kill. That was that. The dog ran off as quickly as he came. The anger began to replace my shock and dismay when I realized, this dog had an owner. He was not a homeless waif, roaming various duck ponds on a murderous nightly spree. He was loved and cared for by a fucking ridiculous woman standing 30 yards away...on her motherfucking cell phone. She was calmly chatting, not paying a lick of attention to her untrained animal who had just killed a bird for sport and left its child to roam the pond, weeping for its loss and now forced to fend for itself.
I stood in brief shock. How had this happened? How had this woman just stood idly by while her mutt committed such acts and done nothing? Less than nothing! She witnessed the event and remained on her cell phone! Clearly that was more important than protecting the wildlife or her pet who was being mercilessly screamed at with such vitriol my throat became hoarse. When seeing that I was also witness to this ridiculous and unnecessary atrocity, strode quickly in the opposite direction. Very quickly. Dog, happy as a clam, in tow. I chased that stupid bitch down. She played dumb, remained on her cell phone, leashed her dog and practically ran away from me. I tried to maintain myself as I confronted her...it was not easy. Through the entirety of the experience, I was more shocked by her nonchalance than the event I had just witnessed. Is this what our cell phone culture is creating? Apathy for even death? There was no responsibility taken. There was no apology. There was no concern. What if that had been a human being? We have become so obsessed with being seen as "busy" or "important" that we are distracted when major things in our lives occur. We are obsessed with being "connected" that we forget about the moment. Every moment is a moment to connect and I wanted nothing more than to connect my fist with her stupid face and watch her cell phone smash to smithereens. I don't want to be violent. I want the world to be more accountable. I want technology to be used as a tool and not abused as a means to avoid or cause conflict. I want people to understand that real life happens when you're glued to the shit that is suppose to free you so that you can spend it living, enjoying and embracing. I don't blame the dog. He was merely living in the moment. If people had any sense, they'd do the same...hopefully with less bloodshed.
Friday, May 27, 2016
Bey Yourself
I would like to address pop-culture for a moment. Specifically, pop music. I don't really do pop. Never have. To be frank, it makes me queasy. I admit to the 'catch' factor. On a few rare occasions I've caught myself reciting some random top 40 nonsense, usually without conscious thought, on my way somewhere. That's what pop culture is though really; It's like venereal disease in that it is something that you catch. Then it's in your body forever. You can pass it on to other people, but that shit will always be with you.
I've recently caught, for the third time...my body just can't fight this shit off...Beyonce fever. Her recent "Visul Album" has really awoke something primal in me. Disgust. Although I think it interesting that she chooses to "artistically" purge herself of her personal woes on her own terms in her own words, uh-hum...actually tis other peoples words, poems, visuals, cinematography, concepts, etc...she bores me. The world ejaculates over her powerful perception and vulnerable ability to showcase such raw vigor. She is controlled by the people who hawk her merchandise. She is a piece of merchandise and we all want a piece. Don't get me wrong, they do an excellent and flawless job of making us ache for the product but she's just that. A commodity. She sells an image, we buy it. She sells a concept, we buy it. However, don't mistake this figure head as anything more. Her career is a perfectly orchestrated machine designed to make money, distract and control the masses. Don't be fooled sheeple. Talented though she may be, she's just as fucked and empty and alone as the rest of us poor schmucks. She just has millions of dollars to fill her emptiness. That's ok. I'm not writing this because of envy. I want people to succeed. Especially women. What I don't enjoy is watching a performer whose husband cheats on her become a feminist icon while standing by his side claiming he's 'the love of her life.' Hunni please. He's just a man. With a dick. Who stuck it in someone else.
It saddens me that her album is receiving such acclaim especially since she had very little to do with it. Sure her emotional struggle and turmoil were the catalysts but other, unknown creative types made the product what it is. It's indeed masterful and she gets the credit. Gross. Tis life I suppose. The people underneath do the labor and the jerk on top acquires the accolades. Beyonce is no genius. Just a woman in the public eye trying to find her own. I wish others would leave it at that. She`s no God, though she demands that ``Bitches Bow Down.`` What kind of feminist behavior is that? Also, making Ike and Tina references in yer songs ain't really selling the whole female power vibe either. I guess what I'm trying to say is that young women need to be themselves and take this Queen B "movement" for what it is: fleeting entertaining distraction.
I've recently caught, for the third time...my body just can't fight this shit off...Beyonce fever. Her recent "Visul Album" has really awoke something primal in me. Disgust. Although I think it interesting that she chooses to "artistically" purge herself of her personal woes on her own terms in her own words, uh-hum...actually tis other peoples words, poems, visuals, cinematography, concepts, etc...she bores me. The world ejaculates over her powerful perception and vulnerable ability to showcase such raw vigor. She is controlled by the people who hawk her merchandise. She is a piece of merchandise and we all want a piece. Don't get me wrong, they do an excellent and flawless job of making us ache for the product but she's just that. A commodity. She sells an image, we buy it. She sells a concept, we buy it. However, don't mistake this figure head as anything more. Her career is a perfectly orchestrated machine designed to make money, distract and control the masses. Don't be fooled sheeple. Talented though she may be, she's just as fucked and empty and alone as the rest of us poor schmucks. She just has millions of dollars to fill her emptiness. That's ok. I'm not writing this because of envy. I want people to succeed. Especially women. What I don't enjoy is watching a performer whose husband cheats on her become a feminist icon while standing by his side claiming he's 'the love of her life.' Hunni please. He's just a man. With a dick. Who stuck it in someone else.
It saddens me that her album is receiving such acclaim especially since she had very little to do with it. Sure her emotional struggle and turmoil were the catalysts but other, unknown creative types made the product what it is. It's indeed masterful and she gets the credit. Gross. Tis life I suppose. The people underneath do the labor and the jerk on top acquires the accolades. Beyonce is no genius. Just a woman in the public eye trying to find her own. I wish others would leave it at that. She`s no God, though she demands that ``Bitches Bow Down.`` What kind of feminist behavior is that? Also, making Ike and Tina references in yer songs ain't really selling the whole female power vibe either. I guess what I'm trying to say is that young women need to be themselves and take this Queen B "movement" for what it is: fleeting entertaining distraction.
Saturday, May 14, 2016
The Watch-Men
When I travel I tend to spend an excessive amount of time watching others. It can be quite the consuming hobby. One can learn a great many thing when they just look. No participation, just simple observation. My observations have resulted in some fascinating findings. Nothing revelatory I'm sure but here it goes.
I have watched countless women watching their man watching other women. It gets sad how blatant men can be about their ogling. Like on a deep societal sadness kind of level. Women are kept down by a look: The lecherous look of a man only concerned with what his eyes tell him. The woman being gawked at and the woman with the man are both depreciated by the insensitive and worn out axiom that 'men are gonna look'. 'That's how men are', 'men need to look', 'it's part of their biology to be visual creatures'. Bullshit. Women are just as visual. The difference is we don't act like savages, rubbing our corneal clits in public. Men do it out of selfish routine to feed the protuberance in their pants and nothing more. It keeps the consciousness of man down as well when he reduces the opposite sex to a mere physical conquest. How can we advance past gender stereotypes and entrenched roles when we keep running through this cycle?
Man and Woman meet. Man proclaims his affection, in whatever form that may take, for Woman. Woman reciprocates. Woman feels secure in relationship. Man sees another female in the distance. She is scantily clad(it's her fucking right to where whatever the fuck she wants). Man takes notice to the extreme. Man has mini fantasies of bending new Woman over something hard and stiff and breeding. Woman with Man feels lost in her own insecurity and questions relationships foundation. Woman in the distance feels objectified and uncomfortable...for herself and for the poor Woman with Man. Lose, lose.
Here's the deal. I watched a man standing in the ocean with his gorgeous, bikini clad supermodel of a girlfriend/wife. He practically broke his neck trying to peep on a woman passing by in a g-string. Why? What does the man gain from this behavior? Has he never seen an ass before? Are there secrets buried in this particular ass that could potentially save the world from all of its ills? If so dude, get on in there! What happens to his brain during this time? It seems to me all is shut-down except his need to feed the pant monster. What is he thinking? Is he thinking? Is he able to form conscious thought about how his behavior benefits society or not? Trust me, it does not. His actions do not. Not, fucking not.
Yesterday I was at a crosswalk waiting for the light to change. In front of me was a handsome couple. They were both dressed quite well, obviously on a date. Regardless of how far in their journey together they were makes no matter. Especially to the eight dudes across the street who stopped conversing to eye the poor girl up and down until I felt uncomfortable. Perhaps I'm just more empathetic than most but it felt pretty shitty being a part of this awkward and totally avoidable moment which went on for the duration of the longest light in history. Some of you may say, "You're just jealous they weren't staring at you." I get enough stares and catcalls and ridiculous behavior from the opposite sex that when I don't, I feel a sense of relief and anonymity. I much prefer to be obsolete to men for I am strong enough to be independent of their leers and jeers. Others are not so lucky. I feel for the others a great deal.
I feel bad for the Women who must watch their Men fully consume a perfect stranger based on mere appearance. I feel bad for the Woman who must pretend as though she does not feel eyes undressing her constantly on the street, at work, in the grocery store for fear of retaliation if she speaks up. I feel bad for our society when women must avoid confrontation and then guard oneself because the onslaught of unwanted attention is overwhelming at times. You'd be surprised how often I can look at a man and know exactly what disgusting thoughts are racing through his pea brain based on his body language and facial expression. We are after-all pack animals with keen observation skills. We've evolved this way for many reasons, one such is for our protection. I shouldn't have to be on-guard everyday, all day. I know what you're thinking. 'Just ignore it.' 'You should feel grateful anyone looks at you at all.' I say no. I say no to those thoughts. I should feel free and safe to walk down the street without feeling eyes all over my body. It's my body. People say looks can't hurt you. They're right. Overtime they just slowly erode a persons sense of identity, self-worth and confidence. Keep your eyes on your partner. If you want out, get out. Nobody is forcing you to stay in the relationship you're in except you. If you want to show interest in a girl and you're single, do so in a manner that respects her personal space. Your gaping rubbernecking serves nothing but your own selfish needs. Think of how your actions sit with other people and we'll all elevate our civil consciousness together in a way that serves the greater good instead of just the junk in yer pants.
I have watched countless women watching their man watching other women. It gets sad how blatant men can be about their ogling. Like on a deep societal sadness kind of level. Women are kept down by a look: The lecherous look of a man only concerned with what his eyes tell him. The woman being gawked at and the woman with the man are both depreciated by the insensitive and worn out axiom that 'men are gonna look'. 'That's how men are', 'men need to look', 'it's part of their biology to be visual creatures'. Bullshit. Women are just as visual. The difference is we don't act like savages, rubbing our corneal clits in public. Men do it out of selfish routine to feed the protuberance in their pants and nothing more. It keeps the consciousness of man down as well when he reduces the opposite sex to a mere physical conquest. How can we advance past gender stereotypes and entrenched roles when we keep running through this cycle?
Man and Woman meet. Man proclaims his affection, in whatever form that may take, for Woman. Woman reciprocates. Woman feels secure in relationship. Man sees another female in the distance. She is scantily clad(it's her fucking right to where whatever the fuck she wants). Man takes notice to the extreme. Man has mini fantasies of bending new Woman over something hard and stiff and breeding. Woman with Man feels lost in her own insecurity and questions relationships foundation. Woman in the distance feels objectified and uncomfortable...for herself and for the poor Woman with Man. Lose, lose.
Here's the deal. I watched a man standing in the ocean with his gorgeous, bikini clad supermodel of a girlfriend/wife. He practically broke his neck trying to peep on a woman passing by in a g-string. Why? What does the man gain from this behavior? Has he never seen an ass before? Are there secrets buried in this particular ass that could potentially save the world from all of its ills? If so dude, get on in there! What happens to his brain during this time? It seems to me all is shut-down except his need to feed the pant monster. What is he thinking? Is he thinking? Is he able to form conscious thought about how his behavior benefits society or not? Trust me, it does not. His actions do not. Not, fucking not.
Yesterday I was at a crosswalk waiting for the light to change. In front of me was a handsome couple. They were both dressed quite well, obviously on a date. Regardless of how far in their journey together they were makes no matter. Especially to the eight dudes across the street who stopped conversing to eye the poor girl up and down until I felt uncomfortable. Perhaps I'm just more empathetic than most but it felt pretty shitty being a part of this awkward and totally avoidable moment which went on for the duration of the longest light in history. Some of you may say, "You're just jealous they weren't staring at you." I get enough stares and catcalls and ridiculous behavior from the opposite sex that when I don't, I feel a sense of relief and anonymity. I much prefer to be obsolete to men for I am strong enough to be independent of their leers and jeers. Others are not so lucky. I feel for the others a great deal.
I feel bad for the Women who must watch their Men fully consume a perfect stranger based on mere appearance. I feel bad for the Woman who must pretend as though she does not feel eyes undressing her constantly on the street, at work, in the grocery store for fear of retaliation if she speaks up. I feel bad for our society when women must avoid confrontation and then guard oneself because the onslaught of unwanted attention is overwhelming at times. You'd be surprised how often I can look at a man and know exactly what disgusting thoughts are racing through his pea brain based on his body language and facial expression. We are after-all pack animals with keen observation skills. We've evolved this way for many reasons, one such is for our protection. I shouldn't have to be on-guard everyday, all day. I know what you're thinking. 'Just ignore it.' 'You should feel grateful anyone looks at you at all.' I say no. I say no to those thoughts. I should feel free and safe to walk down the street without feeling eyes all over my body. It's my body. People say looks can't hurt you. They're right. Overtime they just slowly erode a persons sense of identity, self-worth and confidence. Keep your eyes on your partner. If you want out, get out. Nobody is forcing you to stay in the relationship you're in except you. If you want to show interest in a girl and you're single, do so in a manner that respects her personal space. Your gaping rubbernecking serves nothing but your own selfish needs. Think of how your actions sit with other people and we'll all elevate our civil consciousness together in a way that serves the greater good instead of just the junk in yer pants.
Saturday, May 7, 2016
Dear Travelling Parents
Please stop. Having children and raising them is the hardest thing in the world. It is also the most selfish. Please stop forcing your children under the age of, oh let's say eight, to clamor on an air bus with several hundred other people for fifteen fucking hours because you want them to see the world. I hate to break it to you but the little shits are not going to remember any of this. What they will remember is the hatred felt from other passengers and the extreme ear/throbbing skull pain they feel as the plane disembarks and then re-enters the earths atmosphere at a colossal speed.
I get it. You had children and believe that they should fit into your jet-setting lifestyle, for why should your life change just because you have tiny versions of yourself to care for? BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT FUCKING HAPPENS WHEN YOU HAVE KIDS. Your life is now their life. You as an entity no longer exist as you once did. You are nothing more than a vessel for these little mouth breathers you've created and it's time you fucking own that. You made the choice so now live with it in a mature and reasonable and less self-interested manner. Your children do not have the mental capacity nor the physical proficiency to understand what is happening to them as a plane prepares for re-entry. They are in severe pain...for quite some time. Though I'm sure it feels longer for the rest of the passengers, it must feel an eternity for the little guys who can't fathom this searing pain of ears adjusting to the pressure. I know it's incredibly painful for them because as I start to swallow and go through my own ear popping steps, the babies start to scream bloody murder. The little guys under eight start to squirm and then scream and then really scream and then scream some more. You, as their parent should know better. You as their parent are suppose to protect them from such unnecessary pain until they are old enough to understand it and then deal with it.
Every flight I was on in the last month, (there were nine of them ranging from an hour to eleven), all had fucking babies on them. Babies! There is something so undeniably insane about flying halfway around the world already but then to be unable to escape the piercing, frenzied cries of a child in pain for thirty fucking minutes after no sleep, terrible food and a brown dude elbowing you in the ribs every time he doses off...it's enough to evoke severe fantasies of shaken baby syndrome; Followed by parent punching play time. Is it truly necessary for you and your baby to fly to China, you daft woman? You can't wait a few years until the child can properly cope with this nonsense? And don't get me started on people who bring their fucking pets...there is a special place in the netherworld for you fucking idiots.
Children are rocks in a raging river. Parents are the water. It is the parents responsibility to flow around the stone and to gently shape and mold it into a decent rock that can not only survive in the river but prosper. You have the choice to bend to the needs of the boulder or smother it with wave after wave of stupidity and concern for one's own profit or pleasure. Think before you choose to bring little ones' a flyin' and the rest of the traveling world will be forever grateful.
I get it. You had children and believe that they should fit into your jet-setting lifestyle, for why should your life change just because you have tiny versions of yourself to care for? BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT FUCKING HAPPENS WHEN YOU HAVE KIDS. Your life is now their life. You as an entity no longer exist as you once did. You are nothing more than a vessel for these little mouth breathers you've created and it's time you fucking own that. You made the choice so now live with it in a mature and reasonable and less self-interested manner. Your children do not have the mental capacity nor the physical proficiency to understand what is happening to them as a plane prepares for re-entry. They are in severe pain...for quite some time. Though I'm sure it feels longer for the rest of the passengers, it must feel an eternity for the little guys who can't fathom this searing pain of ears adjusting to the pressure. I know it's incredibly painful for them because as I start to swallow and go through my own ear popping steps, the babies start to scream bloody murder. The little guys under eight start to squirm and then scream and then really scream and then scream some more. You, as their parent should know better. You as their parent are suppose to protect them from such unnecessary pain until they are old enough to understand it and then deal with it.
Every flight I was on in the last month, (there were nine of them ranging from an hour to eleven), all had fucking babies on them. Babies! There is something so undeniably insane about flying halfway around the world already but then to be unable to escape the piercing, frenzied cries of a child in pain for thirty fucking minutes after no sleep, terrible food and a brown dude elbowing you in the ribs every time he doses off...it's enough to evoke severe fantasies of shaken baby syndrome; Followed by parent punching play time. Is it truly necessary for you and your baby to fly to China, you daft woman? You can't wait a few years until the child can properly cope with this nonsense? And don't get me started on people who bring their fucking pets...there is a special place in the netherworld for you fucking idiots.
Children are rocks in a raging river. Parents are the water. It is the parents responsibility to flow around the stone and to gently shape and mold it into a decent rock that can not only survive in the river but prosper. You have the choice to bend to the needs of the boulder or smother it with wave after wave of stupidity and concern for one's own profit or pleasure. Think before you choose to bring little ones' a flyin' and the rest of the traveling world will be forever grateful.
Tuesday, March 8, 2016
So They Give Us A Day
A co-worker came up to me this morning while I was performing a job he was suppose to be doing while making 73.5 cents less than him on every dollar and said, "Happy International Women's Day!" His big stupid grin was about to fade and fade it did.
I proceed to enlighten the boy on the plight of women as I have known it. I barely know it. Let's be real. I face a lot of shit on a daily basis from the opposite sex but others face a helluva lot more. I realize I am more in the moderate center of the shit sandwich spectrum when it comes to thwarting daily catcalls, sexism, judgement(from both sexes), sexual assault, rape, being molested on trains while sleeping(that happens all of the time)...etc. I don't deny that I have a pretty cozy existence living in Canada with Trudeau and his parity government. I do however need to remind those who say stupid shit and have a penis. I believe what he was trying to accomplish was to seem progressive by touting the feminist line...but it made me so fucking angry I wanted to punch him in his stupid man-boy face.
After schooling the child somewhat, dropping the mike and walking away...I felt bad. Fuck me. I felt bad. Then I summoned my female compatriots who have dealt with way more stupid shit than I and I said 'NO.' I will not apologize for getting pissed off. I will not apologize for being 'bitchy' about a seemingly harmless comment. I will not feel bad for teaching someone to use their head before saying stupid nonsense for which they know nothing about. I will be grateful that I possess empathy and move the fuck on. And! I will not torture myself over how He's feeling after the fact. Guess what? He apologized to me later on in the day. His tone was a tad passive aggressive with a hint of sulk. Fuck him. And then I told him so. I stated that you don't have to be sorry that you brought up Women's Day; It just sucks that it exists. It's like we were given a day once a year to soothe our upheavals and discontent to prevent us from uprising off of our backs and out of the kitchen.
I told him that this day created over one hundred years ago is meaningless. Women can't get an education without fear of being raped...by someone they most likely know. In a great deal of countries, women are not even allowed to get educated in the first place and their fear of rape comes from taking the daily dirt path to retrieve water for their family. Acid is still a tool used on a women's face to keep her at bay and under control. Aboriginal women, well...just don't be an Aboriginal women because you're not considered a fucking person by the current standards of our absurd society. Abortions are still illegal in six nations under any circumstances. Women are still seen as the weaker and more feeble sex when it comes to many occupations that we potentially could attain and thrive in but would be harassed incessantly and paid far less if we were to take on said roles(the law is one such example where women are fleeing for their lives to maintain their sanity/dignity/integrity). I could go on but now I'm just exhausting myself with how little we've truly accomplished since suffrage and the inception of our very own day once a year!
I read this article today about how we need to take stock as women on this day of days in regard to how far we've come and how far we still need to go. How about not putting up a Google Doodle where all of the women are merely wishing and hoping and ONE FUCKING DAY-ING that their lives will be better, equality will exist and that they can actually achieve a dream so unrealistic as playing in Major League Baseball. One day Google, one day. This is what we've accomplished? It's not, I am playing in the Major Leagues, I am owning my own laboratory, I am Jane fucking Goodall talking to the Pope on environmental issues. It is: Someday, if a society owned and operated by men will allow me to do more than dream about accomplishing things I care about and I haven't died of sepsis from giving birth to my rape baby...than yes, I will achieve shit. Aggggghhhhhhhh! This is not progress. This is placating fifty one percent of the population of the earth!... so that things remain exactly as they are. And let's keep in mind ladies that in order to play in the Major Leagues, all of the men in your country must be making war overseas(has Geena Davis taught us nothing!?), if you do manage to own your own laboratory, the lab coats are purely for show as your sexy lingerie covering your bargaining tool and assets(like what I did there?)are really the reason behind you owning property in any way and lastly...the only reason Goodall wants to speak to the Pope on the environment is to keep her primate butlers sated so that they may, in turn service all of her needs. Yeah, I said it. Jane Goodall is a monkey fucker.
Fuck this day. Fuck Google, their Doodles, and the measly eighteen percent of women they employ(as of 2015). Fuck Jane Goodall. Wait! I take that last one back because she's amazing. (I apologize infinitely regarding my unsavory monkey fucker comment.) Fuck anyone who takes this day any differently than how they'd normally do. For me that means, squeezing into the sliver of a space in a seat the man next to me has allowed room for with his legs spread massively wide for his nonexistent giant balls. Doing 'man's work' and getting paid far less for it while the men wile the day away with coffee and smoke breaks. Having male customers call me 'Little Lady' and then asking if there are any men around they can speak to about their pressing gardening needs. Speaking to the delivery dude who informs me that he needs the Shipper/Receiver to sign for his delivery and "Is it that guy over there standing by the truck?", while I'm standing in Shipping and Receiving, wearing a fucking name-tag. Then to experience my fellow male employees throughout the day referring to me as either "The Bitchy One on her monthly" or "Sweetheart/Hunn/Sweet Cheeks", depending on how I respond that day to their idiotic queries. Then to travel safely home while I get rubbed up on, on the train not crowded enough for that shit...to finally walk the hill while a homeless dude slurs in my face "How MUUUCCCHHHH," with his drunken spittle grazing my cheek and finding haven in my eye. Fuck this day.
I proceed to enlighten the boy on the plight of women as I have known it. I barely know it. Let's be real. I face a lot of shit on a daily basis from the opposite sex but others face a helluva lot more. I realize I am more in the moderate center of the shit sandwich spectrum when it comes to thwarting daily catcalls, sexism, judgement(from both sexes), sexual assault, rape, being molested on trains while sleeping(that happens all of the time)...etc. I don't deny that I have a pretty cozy existence living in Canada with Trudeau and his parity government. I do however need to remind those who say stupid shit and have a penis. I believe what he was trying to accomplish was to seem progressive by touting the feminist line...but it made me so fucking angry I wanted to punch him in his stupid man-boy face.
After schooling the child somewhat, dropping the mike and walking away...I felt bad. Fuck me. I felt bad. Then I summoned my female compatriots who have dealt with way more stupid shit than I and I said 'NO.' I will not apologize for getting pissed off. I will not apologize for being 'bitchy' about a seemingly harmless comment. I will not feel bad for teaching someone to use their head before saying stupid nonsense for which they know nothing about. I will be grateful that I possess empathy and move the fuck on. And! I will not torture myself over how He's feeling after the fact. Guess what? He apologized to me later on in the day. His tone was a tad passive aggressive with a hint of sulk. Fuck him. And then I told him so. I stated that you don't have to be sorry that you brought up Women's Day; It just sucks that it exists. It's like we were given a day once a year to soothe our upheavals and discontent to prevent us from uprising off of our backs and out of the kitchen.
I told him that this day created over one hundred years ago is meaningless. Women can't get an education without fear of being raped...by someone they most likely know. In a great deal of countries, women are not even allowed to get educated in the first place and their fear of rape comes from taking the daily dirt path to retrieve water for their family. Acid is still a tool used on a women's face to keep her at bay and under control. Aboriginal women, well...just don't be an Aboriginal women because you're not considered a fucking person by the current standards of our absurd society. Abortions are still illegal in six nations under any circumstances. Women are still seen as the weaker and more feeble sex when it comes to many occupations that we potentially could attain and thrive in but would be harassed incessantly and paid far less if we were to take on said roles(the law is one such example where women are fleeing for their lives to maintain their sanity/dignity/integrity). I could go on but now I'm just exhausting myself with how little we've truly accomplished since suffrage and the inception of our very own day once a year!
I read this article today about how we need to take stock as women on this day of days in regard to how far we've come and how far we still need to go. How about not putting up a Google Doodle where all of the women are merely wishing and hoping and ONE FUCKING DAY-ING that their lives will be better, equality will exist and that they can actually achieve a dream so unrealistic as playing in Major League Baseball. One day Google, one day. This is what we've accomplished? It's not, I am playing in the Major Leagues, I am owning my own laboratory, I am Jane fucking Goodall talking to the Pope on environmental issues. It is: Someday, if a society owned and operated by men will allow me to do more than dream about accomplishing things I care about and I haven't died of sepsis from giving birth to my rape baby...than yes, I will achieve shit. Aggggghhhhhhhh! This is not progress. This is placating fifty one percent of the population of the earth!... so that things remain exactly as they are. And let's keep in mind ladies that in order to play in the Major Leagues, all of the men in your country must be making war overseas(has Geena Davis taught us nothing!?), if you do manage to own your own laboratory, the lab coats are purely for show as your sexy lingerie covering your bargaining tool and assets(like what I did there?)are really the reason behind you owning property in any way and lastly...the only reason Goodall wants to speak to the Pope on the environment is to keep her primate butlers sated so that they may, in turn service all of her needs. Yeah, I said it. Jane Goodall is a monkey fucker.
Fuck this day. Fuck Google, their Doodles, and the measly eighteen percent of women they employ(as of 2015). Fuck Jane Goodall. Wait! I take that last one back because she's amazing. (I apologize infinitely regarding my unsavory monkey fucker comment.) Fuck anyone who takes this day any differently than how they'd normally do. For me that means, squeezing into the sliver of a space in a seat the man next to me has allowed room for with his legs spread massively wide for his nonexistent giant balls. Doing 'man's work' and getting paid far less for it while the men wile the day away with coffee and smoke breaks. Having male customers call me 'Little Lady' and then asking if there are any men around they can speak to about their pressing gardening needs. Speaking to the delivery dude who informs me that he needs the Shipper/Receiver to sign for his delivery and "Is it that guy over there standing by the truck?", while I'm standing in Shipping and Receiving, wearing a fucking name-tag. Then to experience my fellow male employees throughout the day referring to me as either "The Bitchy One on her monthly" or "Sweetheart/Hunn/Sweet Cheeks", depending on how I respond that day to their idiotic queries. Then to travel safely home while I get rubbed up on, on the train not crowded enough for that shit...to finally walk the hill while a homeless dude slurs in my face "How MUUUCCCHHHH," with his drunken spittle grazing my cheek and finding haven in my eye. Fuck this day.
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